VLOG 144 – How to build confidence
Recently on an event that I ran, I asked the participants what was holding them back❓ What was challenging them❓
The commonality between everybody was confidence.
Confidence of putting yourself out there, confidence in being able to push to a place that you’re not sure what that looks like yet. Confidence to overcome rejection if it doesn’t work.
The first thing is that confidence is a layered process.
Break down the process into some strides, then break the stride down into some small steps, and move forward over time in that way. Also, when you do things, if you consistently pushing and consistently taking small steps, you do grow extra additional layers of confidence.
I know how that works.
I know how that feels now.
I think it’s really easy to beat yourself up by looking at that person or that brand that you’re trying to compete with. But they probably went through all of these steps themselves.
So rather than look at that person or this brand, just look at how you can improve a little bit and gradually add layers of confidence to grow your sphere, grow your zone of comfort.
So keep pushing, keep adding layers on and drop me a message and let me know how you’re getting on.